How I became a better writer

La Ciudad Perdida, Colombia

Four days of arduous jungle trekking to visit La Ciudad Perdida, Colombia. Worth every second.

Writing is a new thing for me. Well, sort of. I’ve always worked in communications but I wouldn’t necessarily say that I could write. It makes me enormously uncomfortable to call myself a writer.

I started my first blog to fundraise for a charity that I was, still am, passionate about. I sent out a weekly update outlining my running disasters and, as the dollars rolled in, so did the odd comment about my writing.

I wasn’t particularly good at English at school. Science was more my thing.. until it came to doing experiments. Mrs Quereshi, my physics teacher, told my parents that under no circumstances was I to do physics for the school certificate following a nasty incident in the lab where I managed to blow up a power pack.

My interest in writing took off when I started travelling. I LOVED telling others about where I’d been, how I felt when I was there, what I saw, who I met. I blogged to keep my family and friends in touch with my travels. But when a friend told me she felt like she was travelling with me, I suddenly thought ‘Wow’..  if I could take people with me in my travels, how awesome would that be!?

So, not happy with being an average writer, I threw myself into learning how to write and into the blogging world where people like Christine Gilbert of Almost Fearless, Torre deRoche of The Fearful Adventurer, Seth Godin and Chris Guillebeau of The Art of Non-Conformity inspire me with their tales. I rarely miss their posts.

I also love Daily Writing Tips for learning about word plays, grammar, punctuation and writing rules. Their recent post was 75 synonyms for ‘angry’!

As with other crafts, practice makes perfect. The more I write, the easier and, perhaps the better, I get… and this has surprised me. I kind of thought it was innate. Or not.

Writing is a process. It doesn’t always come easily. Sometimes staring at a blank page makes the blood rush up my neck and then my brain fills with shitty thoughts. It would be easier to get up from my laptop and make ten cups of tea than to write.

So I start by throwing thoughts on to a page and building around them until a story starts to shape itself. And then the editing comes… my favourite bit. Chopping and changing and challenging my words.

I write a LOT. More than I ever have. I can’t get enough of it. Sometimes the words spill out of my head so fast that I can’t find a pen quickly enough. And then the words are… gone.

I have words everywhere and often they don’t fit with my blog. So they live in my laptop. I keep a journal with me… for when ideas come to me. My journal has a section called ‘sexy bloggy bits’.

There are two occasions when words come easily to me… when I’m drifting off to sleep… and when I’m exercising hard. I’ve been tempted to borrow a pen off the aerobics instructor and write on the back of the paper towel that mops up all that sweat. Maybe that’s why I’m so uncoordinated in those classes. I’m too busy writing a book in my head to notice that the class has moved from the ‘grapevine’ to the ‘pony’. Suddenly I’m here and they’re there. (Check out the ‘pony’ YouTube clip by the way. It’s ridiculous.)

I write about my passions – life, health, music and medical research. I could probably write about love too but I’d rather not go there. Writing about my travels is what really rocks my world.

So, I plod along, building my health and science writing business, and I practice my writing through my blog because it helps to keep my professional writing sharp. And maybe.. just maybe.. the words that live in my laptop will one day live in a different place.

Are you a writer? What has helped you t become a better writer? Share your thoughts in the comments below.





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  • Gaurav:

    Good read. what made me a better writer was reading lots of books, being witty and slapstick at times and experiencing the place I go to like it was part of me…

    G
    http://www.the-spunky-traveler.blogspot.com

  • Hi Kirsten,

    It’s always easier to write when you are writing about something you enjoy or that you are passionate about. I remember writing about a topic that I knew nothing about and really didn’t interest me… It seemed like writing a school essay every time I wrote. Not fun! and worst of all, my writing was of poor quality because I had no passion for the topic at hand.

    I’m glad to hear that your writing has improved so much. Keep up the good work!

    ~Jeremy
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    • Kirsten Lodge:

      Hi Jeremy. Thanks so much for your lovely comment… and apologies for my delayed response. Life has totally got got in the way! But I have still been writing! I totally feel your pain when it comes to writing about a topic that doesn’t interest you. Thankfully recently I’ve been writing about topics I love. It makes me so happy. All the best with your own online business. Thanks for visiting my blog!

  • I sort of find your post quite an inspiration to me because like you, I have scattered ideas sometimes and I also had that moment wherein I have lots of words in my mind and when I am finally on my table, ready with a pen and paper, the idea totally vanishes. I hope to write on my own blog too, probably about fashion and all other things concerning women. Thanks for inspiring me. :)
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    • Kirsten Lodge:

      Hi Angel

      Thanks so much for visiting my blog… and wow! that’s awesome that you found some inspiration here. I really hope you start your own blog. I find it so rewarding and the writing part just makes me so happy! Good luck with your blog… and send me the link when you do!
      :)

  • hug:

    kirsten your art of story-telling,grows with every story you write,keep it up………there are a couple of words that keep popping up in front of me so i should pass them on to you.the words CAUSE and EFFECT, so i hope they mean something too you…
    cheers hugs xxx

    • Kirsten Lodge:

      Hey Hug

      Thank you SO much. I’m happy to hear my writing is improving… that’s the aim of my blog is to keep practicing and to just get better and better… and to build my confidence in the process. I’m still working on that! And ’cause’ and ‘effect’… I think that’s a Buddhist philosophy. I’m not sure whether it means that I live my life and then write about it… or write and that’s my way of life!? Hmmm… who knows. It makes me happy and peaceful so maybe that’s the cause and effect! :)

  • I’ve always thought your writing was good, because you are so easy to read. I read you like you are talking to me down the phone. no pretensions. It’s just well communicated, and honest. Can’t ask for more.

    x
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    • Kirsten Lodge:

      H, coming from you, that means the world. I have always thought that about your writing… honest, to the point and as if you were telling me a story over a glass of wine. Thanks for your such a lovely comment… :)

  • Well I’ll add to that too Kirsten because I love the way you write. I also feel like I’m there with you or living through your experiences. I have another blogging friend who just moved her family to France so I get to live through their experiences as she shares what they’re doing there.

    I would have thought you’ve always been a writer so that’s good to know that our thoughts being put to the written word can inspire others.

    I chuckled as you shared your exercising experience because I could just see you trying to keep up because your mind was elsewhere. I think that’s why I never do good in those surroundings. :-)

    Thanks for sharing Kirsten! Keep it coming girl.
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    • Kirsten Lodge:

      Adrienne, after spending a weekend ‘offline’, I came back to my blog to see your lovely comment. Thank you! It’s all a learning process for me.. and a confidence building exercise too. That’s one of the reasons I blog – to practice that. My writing has only really been a part of my life in the last few years… and I just love it.

      Exercise and me are… well… learning to love each other! I still have a way to go learning all those aerobics moves.

      Thanks again for visiting my blog, Adrienne and thanks again for your kindness. :)

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